“How could you give Love if you don’t have enough of it… 2”

Have you ever asked yourself why one of your friend is someone who takes everything negatively? Did your ever asked yourself why a certain person you know act differently? Have you ever wonder, why some people do bad stuffs? Or just do things differently? Have you ever think that there might be a reason behind of all those attitudes they’ve got?

For most of us, if one person act differently we always stays away. Admit it, only a few, rather one in a hundred friend you’ve got or sometimes none will break your silence. Nobody will have the guts to see the monster inside you, they might be afraid to see it or rather unleashed it from you. And in some point, “true friend is rare”, apparently no one is true this days you’re lucky if you have someone that will take long rides, knock on your door in the middle of the night (without even knowing or being sure if someone will open it), listen to your drama’s, scold you like a mother but will then hug you without judgment. Friendships in any level is tested. The question is if you’re really a True friend, you will never let challenges in your friendship break you. Not even the continental boundaries.

         I once encounter a person saying “she only remembers me If she need something, or someone to lean on.” Instead of bragging you should be privileged, why? Because you are her/his threshold, this only means you have the big influence in her life that problems couldn’t be solve without you, or sometimes, your friends don’t actually need solutions from you they just need someone to listen to their dramas. Because human beings are naturally born with intelligence. We are born with intellectual capacity to handle hardships in life. We alone knows actually what to do, it only mixed up with our emotions.

          Emotions are the feeling we feel. According to some theories, they are states of feeling that result in physical and psychological changes that influence our behavior.  It A plays a vital role in human beings. As stated emotions influence our behavior, we behave according to what we feel. The point is, the questions stated above is will reflect back to the emotions that a certain person feels and the people around us has a big impact to the emotions we feel back in the womb until the adulthood that could developed the attitude we have now. Remember, we are born having two tendencies in our attitude, that is to have the right or wrong attitude. We are not born bad or good. We became good or bad depending on the environment and people around us. If we grew up in so much love then there’s a lot of it to give. But if we lacked it? We end up looking for it and sometimes others end up looking in wrong places.  

         Now, why does they feel that way? Emotions are need to feel important is a big help to overcome problems. How possible someone help himself/herself to face every problems in life if he/she feels unimportant, unworthy, unlove, tendencies this person so feels this with a simple problem they’ll commit suicide. 

Suicide, for some is the only solution to their undying problems. well, it simpy ain't the solution. It is an escape, an escape to the reality of life that brings us. I think of suicide before, but then I remember the places I wanted to visit, the kids that i gave births which was so wonderful, so I asked GOD to take my worries away and give me a lot of strength to stay calm and strong to any problems.. so still now I am battling with problems(so many of problems.....) but way way calmer now. 

I hope as you read this, may you reflect and if you have questions.. just send me a comment or an email. I'll be happy to help.... Take care..